Friday, April 17, 2009
arguments
I found myself in a situation tonight in which I genuinely had no desire to express my opinion and sat in, literally, an argument. What this showed me was my own stupidity of continuing arguments only for the sake of proving a point. Arguing only gets you so far in life and sometimes that far is too far before you realize that the point is gone and the one's you love don't care about your point. Walk away from a heated argument, that is what I did tonight and I feel very good about myself. Not that I thought my point could not have been heard but there was no point in it being heard. I feel that the more you know, sometimes , the more it hurts you in the long run. Stubbornness hurts a lot of people in the long run. I know how I feel on opinions but I took the high road today and stayed out of controversy. I haven't always done that, I saw why I should today. It's embarrassing. My opinions have led to me having the situation that I am currently in; single.
1 comment:
Agreed..... It seems like arguing was all we did for the last 6 months! If things are to change I might consider US all over again.... Consider.
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